The Power of Processing (In Your Head)

Yesterday I did something for the first time at work. No, I didn't use a bad word (that's not me.) No, I didn't do something perfectly (I wish!) And no, I didn't scream at anyone (definitely not my style!)

This won't sound all that exciting, but I took a ten minute walk to think through what was going on in my head. Interestingly enough my self-talk was not based on "bad" things, in fact it was quite the opposite. I wasn't upset, or stressed, or worried. It's just that I've been managing a fairly full plate lately and it seemed like a good idea to just think for a few minutes.

Just think.  

Hmm...when was the last time you took a few minutes to just think about the issues going on in your world?

Time
Like most of you, I live and die at the whim of my calendar. Although I do my best to manage my time effectively, the reality is that I have a demanding job that keeps me running most days (read here --> my days can be chaotic!) The adrenaline junkie in me absolutely loves the pace, but where I fail myself is not allowing for any time to process all of the issues I need to manage.

You Owe It To Yourself
I'm not willing to declare that I am good at processing what is going on in my world. What I can say, is that my ten minute investment in myself...my work...my life...yesterday afternoon was a success.

I'm learning to appreciate the power of processing, and what it can do on many levels. The ability to disconnect for a few minutes. The opportunity to remove the pings, rings, and reminder dings of our various devices that seem to go off all day. The chance to think through important issues and feel good about where you're headed.

How About You
Do you have ten minutes today to invest in yourself? I'm going to find the time again, whether I believe I have it or not. That ten minutes might just make the rest of your work day ten times more productive.

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.



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Just Bare Your Soul

Over the years I've learned a lot about leadership, usually through my own missteps. In order to stay current and embrace the notion of being a lifelong learner, I've read (and continue to read on a daily basis) many articles, blog posts, and an occasional book to put in the effort to improve. I would hate to think that I come across as someone who has "figured it all out" and doesn't need to push myself to be contemporary.

Knowledge vs. Action 
One of the most important pieces of my learning journey is that all of the books, posts, and articles in the world can not replace the most important part of leadership --> action. We've all heard many leaders talk a good game in the conference room or private office, but when it comes time for execution they wither and fail.

Why is it so difficult to take the next step and move from theory to execution? For me, it comes down to one basic competency that many leaders lack. They struggle so mightily with this one skill that they will do whatever is necessary to avoid stepping up and taking action.

The fear of confrontation is what stands in the way of good leaders becoming exceptional ones. The ability to look another person in they eye, decisively explain what the issues are, and move forward is a major stumbling block for so many.

Confrontation Builds Confidence
Something incredible happens when we take the next step and address issues in the workplace. Issues get resolved. I'm not being flippant here...I'm very serious. The team of employees around you is watching to see if you will handle the problems or not. 

When you don't...when I don't...our credibility is compromised. After all, who wants to follow a leader who isn't willing to deal with the difficult issues?

That's why overcoming the fear of confrontation was so important for me early in my career. Is it easy to confront someone? No! Is it a pleasant experience? Absolutely not! Is it necessary if you are going to be a legitimate leader and not just an empty suit? Yes!

How About You
Which leaders do you see in your organization that are struggling with confrontation? Have you reached out to coach them, support them, and let them know that it is difficult but you'll be there to help them through it? That's our job after all, isn't it?

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.



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Are You The Asteroid?

It was an amazing and beautiful time. The world seemed to be just right. Life had a certain flow. There was an order to things, everything had it's place, life flourished and best of all it seemed to make sense. Life was good.

Then an asteroid hit the earth and wiped out the dinosaurs.

Your Work
I'm guessing that your workplace has a certain flow to it. Maybe even a rhythm that is almost palpable. You might even say that you've experienced amazing things in your work because of the nature of the people who make up the team. That is truly a beautiful (and rare) gift.

Have you considered people...the ones who somehow intersect with your life...as a gift? What about those that don't work directly with you, but as a leader in your organization you're responsible for? (Yes, even if they don't work for you, they are still your responsibility.)

People as a gift. I like that.

A lot.

What's That In The Sky
Sometimes we take gifts, or culture, or work ethic for granted. It doesn't happen overnight, but more gradually as time passes. When we take our eyes off the "gifts" around us, we can miss a problem that is headed our way. 

We can easily get so caught up in our task list or action plan or "priority of the day" that we fail to see that we're off course.

When an organization drifts off course it is the people...those incredible gifts...that pay the price. It isn't that "the plan" has now been compromised. People are the plan. It's not that we're going to miss an earnings target. People should be our targets. 

The culture and morale of our companies suffer when we allow disruptive leaders to wield their influence in a way that moves people from being considered a gift, to being pawns that must live in fear and succumb to that leader's will.

How About You
Who are the asteroids in your organization? What are you doing to change their trajectory so they don't cause a collision; but instead, get the coaching, support and feedback they need to stave off a disaster?

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.



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Drawbridge Leadership

"We thought, because we had power, we had wisdom."
- Stephen Vincent Benet

Power

There is a certain energy that should come from serving in a leadership role. For leaders who have broken through to a high level for the first time it can be downright exhilarating. The organization trusts you to make major decisions that will affect anywhere from a handful to potentially thousands of employees.

With that role comes an unbelievable amount of automatic trust, pressure, and responsibility to do the right thing.

Clouded Vision

What happens when that new leader suddenly realizes that he or she may not necessarily appreciate some of the points of view on their leadership team? What if the inner circle isn't filled with a team of agreeable bobble heads that hang on every idea and phrase as if they were the most insightful thoughts ever uttered?

Change happens, that's what.

Consequences

To be fair, I am a big fan of change. I've had to reinvent my own style of leading and getting work done over the last four years because the world around me changed. It was my responsibility to reinvent myself in order to remain current. 

However, there is danger when we raise the drawbridge and surround ourselves with a smaller and smaller team that is saddled with the responsibility of executing our grand ideas. Is it realistic for a team of less than four or five to manage thousands, or even tens of thousands of employees? 

You know the answer. Yet time and again it seems a small group of leaders (who are incredibly isolated from the front line) convince themselves they know what is best for the whole company.

There is danger in arrogance...and an ever smaller inner circle could be considered the epitome of leadership arrogance.

How About You

Where is your leadership visibility? How accessible is the leadership team...really...when so much time is spent behind a mahogany door deciding "what's best" for the institution? Where is the action that backs up speeches that espouse transparency? It's time to lower the drawbridge and lead among our teams, not over them from the balcony.

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.

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Too Far?

"Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far they can go."
- T.S. Eliot


Today I'm thinking about my impact. Effective? Weak? Do I believe my self-talk?

Maybe I haven't really considered the possibilities before me because I haven't risked going far enough? I'm probably just too comfortable where I am.

How About You
Have you taken the risk and pushed yourself farther than you ever thought you could...only to realize you made a difference that you never thought was possible?

How did that feel?

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.



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Destroyer of the Universe

It didn't start out this way. The fear hadn't set in...communication was open...and most believed the long wait for a strong leader was finally over. The energy and creative ideas seemed to be just what everyone had hoped for...

Starting Out

The common "honeymoon period" for new leaders is one that the shrewd among us seize upon, and for good reason. The window of opportunity for change is usually the greatest during this transition time. The most latitude is afforded during the honeymoon, new team members are willing to go along with fresh ideas, and in turn give the new leader a chance to succeed.

"Perhaps the honeymoon period is the only time most leaders have a chance to affect real change because they struggle so mightily to inspire others once their true leadership style emerges."

Inspiration Is Mandatory

So how does one inspire others exactly? Is it through a series of ideas? Is it creating a culture that energizes the team to take risks and think big? Is it demonstrating a willingness to trust others and allow them to take ownership for the work that gets done instead of micromanaging every detail?

The answer of course is yes!

Crashing and Burning

With so much written about leadership behaviors, so many leadership development sessions being held, and a long list of assessment tools available to us all, how is it that the promise of the honeymoon could end up crashing down on the team?

Maybe the answer can be found in the selection process? Perhaps we don't intervene early enough to head off a disaster? Or maybe we just don't want to admit that a mistake has been made so we tolerate behavior because that is "just how they are?"

Perhaps we're not as strong at leading as we thought?

How About You

Who in your organization has fallen from grace? Do you even realize the full impact? Unless you invest the time to create a safe environment for those affected to open up to you, the truth will remain an elusive target. 

How much of your culture will be destroyed while you take the typical "wait and see" approach; or, worse yet, wait for someone else to arrive and clean up your mess?

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.



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Slaves of Fear

In early 2009 I received my very first LinkedIn connection request. It was from a vendor that continues to be an important strategic partner, and I had absolutely no idea what this strange request was all about. So I ignored it.

It was new to me...had something to do with social media, and I worked in #HealthcareHR. Clearly I wasn't interested in anything like that! 

Slave of Routine

Back in '09 I thought I was on top of my game. I was six months into the best job I've ever had (and still have!) and certainly didn't need to focus on anything that would disrupt my transition. I was developing a great routine, meeting new people everyday, and learning how things are supposed to be done in my new organization.

I had fallen into the trap of taking my new role too far. Instead of investing the time to listen and learn and then take action; I listened, learned, and allowed myself to flow into the established rhythms of the work day without adding my personal leadership vision.

Not good. 

Slave No More

I finally accepted that LinkedIn request...and then spent some time exploring this interesting new site. Suddenly I realized that the person I had been for so many years was no longer relevant in the world of work. Sure, I could have plodded along and been one of the many incredibly effective transactional focused HR managers. But quite honestly, who wants to be one of those?

 
The realization that washed over me also opened the door for me to begin the process of reinventing myself. I didn't frame it that way until a year or so later, but the reality was clear.

I simply could not stay the same if I was going to be an effective HR leader going forward. The problem wasn't that I had done something wrong, or that I didn't understand how to lead a team of people. That wasn't the point.

The world of work had changed, and I was the one that had to change with it. I didn't see any other choice. I had to change..I had to admit I needed to learn brand new tools...and I had to start right away.

I distinctly remember feeling that I was far behind leaders I was paying attention to in other industries. That turned out not to be true...just as it isn't true today for others who haven't learned new tools in their work life. Life is about learning, and candidly it is never too late to start. 

How About You

Have you ever considered reinventing yourself? At first it can feel like a daunting task; yet once you begin taking small steps the process magically picks up speed. Before you realize it you're  "suddenly" well on your way. There are only two steps necessary for you to begin: realize the need, and then get started. It's just that simple. Are you ready?

I'd love to hear from you.

No Excuses.

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