There are different periods in our lives when the pace of change seems to come in waves. Maybe it's just me, but I seem to have significant personal and professional issues hit all at once.
Blessing
One of the ways I've decided to manage the flood of emotions that comes with "so much" happening at the same time is to frame it all as a real blessing.
The self-talk goes something like this..."thank goodness this is all happening now, so I'll be done with these chaotic times all at once."
Um, that is not exactly how life works though.
Curse
The counterpoint to my thank-God-I'm-enduring-so-much-madness is that lots of change simply feels like a curse.
Now, I'm a pretty optimistic guy which is why my first reaction is usually in the "blessing" mindset.
But...there are times when the emotions gain control and my attitude gets sidetracked for a time.
That is how life works sometimes too.
How About You
What is your gut reaction to the reality of change in your life? Is it a burden...a blessing...an opportunity to grow...or a curse?
I'd love to hear from you.
No Excuses.
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I need a quick show of hands....how many of you have ever been frustrated at work? Okay, everyone. Good.
Another question...how many of you have done something constructive about it? Not so many hands still raised this time? How come?
Blessing and a Curse
One of the blessings of working in a Human Resources leadership role, regardless of the level in your organization, is you never have two days in a row that are the same. The human drama (and melodrama) keep coming at us in many different forms...the challenges of keeping our businesses viable...and the never ending legal and regulatory landscape make for fascinating work.
One of the curses of working in a Human Resources leadership role, regardless of the level in your organization, is you never have two days in a row that are the same. That same list I just reviewed can also drive us all a bit crazy.
You Hold the Key
So what does the dedicated, but tired and overworked human resources pro do when they are frustrated and ready to bang their head against the wall? First, don't hit the wall with your head. Second, just get started => do something. None of us can work through all of our difficulties at one time, but if we take a step forward to react to them, we will slowly begin to take more control. That sense of control (I don't mean control-freak here) is comforting because it means we are managing our work on our terms.
How About You
You also have a secret weapon in your battle with frustration...your network. Leverage your contacts and reach out. They are going through the same challenges you are; and once you connect with them you will both benefit from the discussion. I know it works...I've wanted to bang my head too.
I'd love to hear from you.
No Excuses.
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